Losing someone we love is one of the painful things a person could experienced in his or her life. One good thing however, is the fact that you can still have the chance to woe your special someone back to your loving arms if you do the right strategy. Here are three practical tips you can follow to get your ex-back to your arms.
A. Begging, pleading is a BIG NO
To those persons who wants to get back to their ex begging and pleading is a BIG NO. You might think that begging or pleading is the right thing to do after a painful separation, but trust me it is not.
If beg or plead to you special someone you will just turn his or her off since you look desperate and unattractive. Instead of begging or pleading just play cool with your separation and wait for the right time to express your intention to woe her or him back.
B. Do not be like a doormat
If you are serious in getting back to your ex show some form of self respect by not sacrificing everything for your love.
Do not be like a doormat by allowing your ex-lover to step on your reputation for the sake of the two of you being together again. Do avoid lines like “Please stay, I will do anything for you” since doing do could backfire since your ex might think you are a weakling. Instead of giving him or her heaven just tell that you wish to repair your relationship because of your love. Always remember that a relationship is not a one-way radio but rather a give and take relationship between two souls who love each other.
C. Be serious in your intention
To make the girl or man realize that going back to you is the right thing to do, show to your ex that you are very serious in getting back to them. If you intend to express you love to her or him on the phone do it while you are sober and not when you are drunk. If you call your ex when you are drunk he or she might thin that you are not serious in rekindling your lost love for each other. Make also a point not to sound and look desperate to your ex by constantly calling or texting them. Make you ex see that you have grown up and ready to start a new relationship wit her or him again.